A couple of things. For the most part, neither party cares about Ukraine. The Republicans don't want the Democrats taking credit for Ukraine. Once they're in power, they'll give Ukraine the same pitiful help. In short, each makes an issue out of the downside of the other's position. Sad, but Americans just don't care (and didn't care 70 years ago until their ships were sunk).
On the missiles trying to break the spirit of Ukrainians. That's no longer the reason, I believe. What Putin is doing is forcing the U.S. to match his missiles 10 dollars to 1. It costs 10 dollars of Western tech to take down every 1 dollar of Russian missile tech.
Putin has been right-ish all along. The West won't do what it takes to kick Russia out of Ukraine. I believe eventually it will. But it's far from certain.
You still mad at me about the Jewish stuff ;) Consider that Israel is basically double-daring Hezbollah, by attacking Lebanon, to start World War III.
Hope you have a great New Year!