They’ll never get me into that rocker! haha. How can you say people know what they want when I am a person and I have said, quite clearly, I do not know what I want? I find sex somewhat embarrassing to both do and talk about. Since we all wear clothes it seems there’s something to this bizarre opinion of mine. Why do you wear clothes?

But okay, we know what we want. That’s not the same as knowing what someone else wants. And you argue that people can communicate what they want if asked. Now that’s a bizarre claim about people in general!!! Do you live your life in complete honesty?

Indeed, this is a question you can answer for me. Why do young people talk endlessly about how they identify, sexually, but never the sex itself? Now that’s bizarre to me. If the fix is to communicate what we want, why isn’t what we do, sexually, discussed in the open? What is everyone ashamed of?

It’s not that I don’t care if my partner enjoys sex. I just don’t know how to talk about it without ruining the experience. I don’t feel I’m an exception here. No one thinks with their brain, let me put my penis in this hole. No animal does, far as we know. In short, you claim this machinery can be operated in a way it wasn’t designed to be operated in. And when we do try to operate it with our “minds” we often end up doing I said in my first comment — masturebating.

In a sense, birth rates are declining because no matter how much we call it “communication” it ends up as experience-ruining judgment. Even if you tell me what you want, how can I be sure I achieved it? Yes, there is a lot I’d love to communicate about in sex, as I’m sure my wife would too. And we do communicate if it’s something that really bothers us. But in general, we don’t talk about it as you apparently do.

Finally, how many kids do you have? The point of Galloway’s piece. We have three. All conceived in ignorance. You got me there too !!!!