I wrote a piece here that was taken down, where I talk about paranoia and narcissism in my father, who was Jewish. He was Ashkenazi. Not that I didn't know what you pointed out already, but it's ironic because educated readers would read my piece as hate speech against Europeans and it was taken down because of antisemitism--which some Jews would claim impossible because the DNA is so weak (not to mention my Mother wasn't DNA Jewish in any way).
The truth is, as you point out, the truth is complex indeed! Sadly, there is a lot of censorship and shadow-banning which gets in the way of these deep discussions. But I'm sure your story will stay. It's a great one!
Like Ukraine, in Gaza we have brothers killing brothers. So very, very, very sad.