I've known many (my Father was Jewish) and yet everything you wrote rings true.
I'll add this. Jews, like everyone else, are not of one mind. The reason many Jews in America (I believe) aren't calling Israel out as a terrorist State is that the media censors them because they believe all Jews are the same; that is, those who call you or I an antisemite must be right because they're Jewish. They wouldn't just make it up for some dubious reason ;)
We can see this in blacks and Hispanics. There are plenty of Republicans among them. No one group is the same all the way through. And yet the Zionists pound the point home, second after second, that all Muslims are on a Jihad to wipe them out.
When Medium got "mad" at me my first reaction was to get mad at them. I had to remind myself, they just don't understand. With the photos of the Israelis storming a hospital dressed as women, holding a fake baby carrier like in the movies, assassinating Palestinians--I believe they are starting to get it.
Bad Jews have overtaken the Israeli government. Even other Jews can't say it without being called an antisemite.
However, I believe those who try to stay out of it are miscalculating. A point I try to make over and over. The ultimate reaction with be a hatred of Jews. THANK YOU for trying to help people who, as you say, are just your neighbors.