That's been my argument to an Israeli friend of mine for years. When Netanyahu went around Obama to talk to Congress I believe that a line was crossed. When Israeli's used American white nationalism/racism (Trump) to gain support from certain Americas, at the expense of blacks (Obama) and Muslims (AOC, etc), again, too far.
The consequence is that American progressive Jews will eventually give up on Israel. They won't go down with that ship. Of course, none of us want that. NOT AT ALL. But what can we do? This has been building for years. We'll see. Thanks for comment. You are NOT alone. I have many friends feeling the same.