What is about me? That I don't understand what you're saying because I'm a narcissist? That I don't understand what you're saying because I lack the blood-understanding or environmental experience? That I don't recognize I have some mental illness that prevents me from grasping reality?

It's a very low form of insult to write "I think it's about you." I said such things when I was young too, so don't be offended. Again, what point is there to such a statement?

But I understand. I'm trying to explain something I see in you and you don't want my opinion. No matter how much I couch it in flattery.

Again, you are a marvelous writer. I really enjoy reading what you write.

Happy Hanukkah to you too!!!!!!!!