What you say is what propagandas' want you to believe goes on in Muslim homes. If what you say is true, how do you know what was taught to you is true? Think about it. Your explanation is too convenient. What else would you think, could you think, to watch the carpet bombing of women and children? Where are your a,b,c's?

a, One should not take the name of God for human purpose.

b. One should not kill.

c. One should not bear false witness against they neighbor (your tell me what all Muslims do when I don't believe you have direct experience with even one).